“Football builds character.” We hear that phrase so often that we take its truth for granted, without stopping to consider what is really being said. Football is the most popular sport in America today, and its players are publicized, and often idolized, to an unbelievable level. Our boys grow up wanting to play football. They are drawn by the excitement and the adrenaline rush the game provides. And we, as parents, want them to play football. Why? We are drawn in by the excitement as well but we often fall back on that axiom that participating in team sports builds character. And we view football as the ultimate team sport. If they play football, our boys will become physically and mentally tough! They’ll learn how to work together for a common goal and how to overcome tough losses and keep pushing toward that goal. We encourage our boys to sign up for the pee-wee football team because surely these lessons are all things that will benefit them later on in life. Because, after all, football builds character, doesn’t it?
I think we really need to examine that statement and not just accept it as gospel. If football really builds character, then the longer you play and the higher up the football ladder you go, the more it should benefit you. It would make sense, then, that players who make it to the NFL level and have a long professional career would reap the most benefits from the sport and have the most successful lives after football. But that’s not the story the facts tell. When you look behind the scenes, it appears that the higher up you go in the game, the more problems you have.
In major college football, it seems that every day we’re reading of eligibility issues, low graduation rates, and disciplinary problems.
On January 28, 2006, in an article titled “Life After the NFL,” USA Today reported that, in fact, 78 percent of all NFL players are divorced, bankrupt, or unemployed two years after leaving the game. And NFL players are six times more likely to commit suicide, citing the work of Ken Ruettgers, former twelve-year veteran player with the Green Bay Packers and advocate for players transitioning from professional sports through his organization, Games Over.
What do these statistics mean? Do they mean that football is an inherently bad game and we shouldn’t let our boys play, for fear that they’ll end up an emotional wreck? No, I don’t believe that at all. I played and coached football for most of my life, and I have a son playing college football now. What it does mean, however, is that football doesn’t build character any more than factories build automobiles. Our character is shaped by the people we are around, by our experiences, and by our beliefs about why God put us here on earth. And depending on how it is taught, football can be either a positive enhancement or a destructive force in that development.
This impact of football on the lives of young men is what The Jersey Effect is all about. Hunter Smith knows this subject very well. He was an outstanding football player who enjoyed success at every level of the sport. Hunter played in a tremendous high school program in Sherman, Texas, and then went on to star at Notre Dame. He played twelve years in the NFL, punting for the Indianapolis Colts and Washington Redskins. For seven of those years, I had the pleasure of coaching him with the Colts, and I got to watch him grow not only as a player, but as a husband, as a father, and as a man. Hunter was able to navigate the emotional roller coaster of big-time football—from highs like winning a Super Bowl to lows like fumbling a snap that cost his team a chance at victory (and he truly grew from both). This book describes how he was able to do that and not get swallowed up by success or disappointment.
It’s my belief that young people involved in sports need to grow academically, athletically, socially, and spiritually. That should be the goal of parents, teachers, counselors, and coaches. Unfortunately, as a professional coach, I saw too many examples of young men who had developed athletically but hadn’t grown in the other three areas. And that’s what leads to the frightening statistics mentioned previously. The Jersey Effect speaks to parents about the importance of not neglecting our children’s academic, social, and spiritual lives.
This book was also written with the young athlete in mind. Young men and women who are reaching for the stars are naturally driven. They thirst for the thrill and excitement of heated competition. They quest for the attainment of physical fitness and agility of mind when it comes to the sport of their choosing. And through it all, they need the love and guidance of parents, mentors, and coaches to avoid the pitfalls that often come when they strive to be the very best at what they set out to do. A message that is just as important, or even more so, is the need to find and keep a fully engaged relationship with Jesus Christ.
The Jersey Effect deals with many of the dynamics and issues that our boys are facing today, whether they’re athletes or not. Hunter and coauthor Darrin Gray, who works with an organization called All Pro Dad, do a great job of mapping out the best way for boys to navigate that journey to manhood, one that starts with following the spiritual guidance of Jesus Christ.
After Hunter’s first son was born, he and I had a lot of conversations about parenting and fatherhood. Now that his son is getting to the point where he is interested in football, we’ve talked about youth leagues and what should be emphasized in youth coaching. I know this is a passion for him, and he wanted to share with people how he and some of his teammates got the most out of their experiences in the game. If you have a son that is interested in sports or you work with young people in any capacity, this book will help you look at the process a little differently and aid you in helping them build the character we want them all to possess.
Tony Dungy
Former head coach of the Super Bowl XLI Champion Indianapolis Colts
NBC Sunday Night Football commentator
Author of the best-selling books Quiet Strength, Uncommon, and The Mentor Leader