Satan uses three major forms of temptation to take advantage of our desires and tempt us into sin: lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, and the pride of life (1 John 2:16). This is Satan’s oldest trick in the book. Eve fell into this trap when she disobeyed God by eating from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil (Genesis 2:16–17).
The first deceitful method Satan used to tempt Eve was to minimize and disregard her punishment for disobedience. He told her, “You shall not surely die” (Genesis 3:4). Look for the trap whenever someone is tempting you to deny, debate, or minimize your punishment for pursuing your desires. These people will use phrases like, “You won’t get caught” or “It’s worth the risk.” Know that if there is a slight possibility your actions warrant punishment, don’t do it!
The second deceitful method Satan used to tempt Eve was to suggest that God was hindering Eve from becoming a god herself (Genesis 3:5). God knew that Eve’s knowledge of good and evil would cause the fall of mankind, but Eve’s pride likely caused her to make an attempt to overtake authority as a god. Look for the trap whenever someone is tempting you to turn against authority (parents/teachers) or to falsely accuse others. Those who tempt you may use phrases like, “Your parents are hating on you” or “Your teacher is discriminating against your race.” Know that if you have to rebel against authority, don’t do it!
In the end, Eve made the choice to disobey God. And the Devil did not make her do it! He only tempted her with her strongest desire, lust of the eyes (Genesis 3:6), and Eve ate from the tree and shared her fall into temptation with Adam. Criminals do the same thing when they recruit a “co-defendant” or “fall partner” to participate in sin.
Adam and Eve also made an attempt to cover up their sin (Genesis 3:7). Everyone has tried to cover an act of sin. But just as God gave Adam and Eve an appropriate covering (Genesis 3:21), God will also cleanse us from sin when we choose to repent (1 John 1:9). Look for the trap whenever someone’s is tempting you to blame others and cover up your actions. These people will offer an alibi to convince you that you can get away with sin. They may also offer a scapegoat, or someone else to blame for your sin. Know that if you have to lie or blame someone else for your actions, don’t do it!
Let’s review some examples of how your worldly desires and fleshly lusts make it difficult to resist temptation.
Pride of Life
Have you ever met a pretty girl who only dates fellas who are violent and no good to her? Meet Tanya. She is eye candy and seems to have it going on, until you meet her boyfriend. Tanya is dating Johnny, a gang member who wears a natural mean-mug. The only thing Johnny is good at is knocking out boys. So why does Tanya date Johnny? She is controlled by her pride of life. Tanya looks sweet and innocent on the outside, but actually she thinks she knows everything and is very conceited (Proverbs 26:12). Tanya likes Johnny because he can protect her when she pretends to be more than what she really is (Galatians 6:3).
One day, a boy named Mike asked Tanya for her phone number. Tanya gladly exchanged numbers, but she gave Mike’s number to her jealous boyfriend, Johnny. Mike went to the hospital and Johnny went straight to juvenile hall for assault. While Johnny was locked up, he thought Tanya was cheating. As soon as Johnny was released from jail, he rushed to speak with Tanya, but Johnny did all the talking with his hands. Tanya skipped school for a week to hide her black eye.
Tanya’s pride would not allow her to face all her classmates who laughed and talked behind her back. She also avoided her parents, as Mom and Dad had warned her about dating thugs, but she would not listen. Tanya’s pride caused her to continue dating Johnny just to prove she could change him. Besides, Johnny apologized, claiming he hit Tanya out of love (1 Corinthians 13:4–8) and promised to never hit her again. Too bad Tanya was controlled by her pride of life, because the day she stood up to Johnny, he broke his promise along with Tanya’s jaw.
Lust of the Eyes
Have you ever met a church boy who had the lifestyle of a dope boy? Meet Gabriel. Everybody in Gabriel’s family loves Jesus. Gabriel appears to be a humble servant of the Lord, until he leaves church (Matthew 23:27). He speeds in the school parking lot just to be seen in his Tahoe with twenty-six-inch chrome rims. Gabriel only hangs with students who have nice rides and top-of-the-line gear (James 2:1–4). So why does Gabriel, a child of God, have to look so fly? Gabriel is controlled by his lust of the eyes. One day a hustler named Ricky decided to take advantage of Gabriel. Ricky drives a BMW and is twenty-three years old, but only hangs with teenagers. While cruising the strip, Ricky made sure that Gabriel saw his brand-new BMW 745LI—all the bait he needed to set Gabriel up for a fall. Gabriel immediately fell in love with Ricky’s ride when he noticed the immaculate interior. What Gabriel did not see was that the Beamer was stolen.
Ricky invited Gabriel to roll with him for the weekend. Since Ricky dressed like most of the college students at Gabriel’s church, Gabriel assumed that Ricky was harmless based on his outward appearance (1 Samuel 16:7). Ricky’s BMW swerved in both lanes as Gabriel trailed close behind. The cars stopped at a red light. While Gabriel was busy admiring the nice rides on the strip, a gunman pulled alongside and demanded his Tahoe. The BMW and Tahoe sped off as Gabriel stood in the street, wondering why he did not see the jack move coming (2 Corinthians 5:7).
Lust of the Flesh
Have you ever met a girl who was rumored to be a tease and had a bad reputation for not having sex? Meet Jill. She is outgoing, fun-loving, and easy to get along with. Jill has many friends on her Facebook page, but she has never had a boyfriend. So why does Jill have a bad rep for not having sex? Most of Jill’s Internet buddies are controlled by their lust of the flesh. Jill has made the correct choice to not date because she has a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. The only relationships her friends have are chatting online, sexting, or hanging out late at night (Romans 8:4).
Friday was game day, and Jill and the rest of the cheerleaders wore their uniforms to school. Todd, who is driven by his out-of-control hormones, decided to locate Jill on Facebook. They chatted online only once, but Todd lied to his friends about Jill being unable to resist hooking up with him on the first night. Jill thought Todd was cool, but before she agreed to accept his friendship, Jill asked Todd if he knew Jesus. Todd never returned her text to confirm that he was a child of God (Matthew 10:32–33).
Todd became angry with Jill because she threw God in his face, so he e-mailed his friends, claiming that Jill was a tease and scared to go all the way. Jill was confused; she could not understand why boys were turned off by her being a Christian (Romans 8:6–7; 1 Corinthians 2:14). One day Jill will realize that she has the best relationship of all—a spirit-led connection with God. The power of the Holy Spirit enables Jill to resist falling into a lustful trap with the Devil.
Remember, temptation is difficult to resist because you can make the choice to lessen your responsibility by taking shortcuts; allowing others to do your work; following others; breaking the rules.